Doubt Means Don't
Looking at my list of postings, I notice I have a significant amount of posts still in draft mode. Posts that haven't seen the light of day, or the index of Google.
These posts contain content; some better than others. They've consumed my time to write. Yet I can't get myself to actually hit the Publish button. Some of the content contains more than just crumbs for the world to see and is intensely personal. I want to share, but I don't want to share. And others - well let's just say they're stupid for lack of a better word. Does that even make sense? Why draft them then?
I remember hearing someone once say (not sure who - so let's go ahead and give Oprah the shout-out again) that doubt means don't. And I've tried to apply this thought to everyday life.
Before telling a potential harmful joke, before sending an e-mail, before purchasing an item, before making an important decision.
Doubt means don't.
So for now, these posts will stay in draft mode until either my doubt subsides or I hit the delete button already and permanently erase them from my tiny, over-worked brain.
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I'm the same way. I am really cautious. I don't want too much information available for safety reasons in the age of identity theft.
Actually, I wish that more people would think before they push that publish button. There are so many that just spew out whatever happens to be on their mind at the time. I can't help but think that some of them regret it later.
I agree with both of you.
Love this post...and it is so true.
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Angel Food Cake Isn't a Candle
I have a lot of drafts too -- usually things I just write for myself.
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I agree and also this is a great thought when leaving comments to people's blogs too. I have many emails and entries in draft mode and they stay there until I can work through whatever is bugging me.
I used to do a personal blog, but I felt it was too invasive. I like my privacy and I don't want to hurt other people's feelings. Those entries are better left in my private journal. Once I figured out what was working (just sticking with money-saving topics), I finally felt comfortable with blogging and found my niche.
Great reminder!
i actually have more items in draft than published.
Now THIS was very enlightening! I too suffer from too-many-drafts and every time a new post makes it to publication I feel guilty about the many that haven't seen the light of day. But, like yours, they're painfully personal and/or contain things that I'm not sure would be received too well by those who read it. *sigh* Doubt. I hate when that happens.
Thanks for making me feel that it's not just me...
Oh! I think it mean "Do You Bring a Tea" Hoho!
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